New moons set the stage for your next journey, and for some constellations coming back with an ex during the New Moon in Libra starting October 6, 2021, the stars point back to the past.
Usually we see the end being completed before the New Moon and we expect new energy to enter our lives as we begin the next phase. It is out with the old and in with the new.
However, some under the zodiac did not get the memo.
There are two aspects during this New Moon in Libra that can bring certain zodiac signs into contact with unfinished business from the past and an ex-relationship.
The Moon in Libra will square Pluto, the planet of transformation and change.
Pluto is also the planet that rules reincarnation, past lives and taboos. It can also bring out secrets that reveal new layers of information that were hidden before anyone changed their mind.
The Moon will also speak to the Ascendant, which is related to one’s past life and identity.
The moon is also a symbol of the past, so emotions about ex-loves can come back hard.
This New Moon in Libra makes some a little indecisive about the choices when conjunctural with the communication planet Mercury.
They may be making and carrying past energy into this new cycle. This may mean getting back together with someone who is comfortable but is still an ex.
This can feel to some as if going back with an ex is the smartest decision they can make, and with Mercury in Retrograde, it doesn’t help that choice.
The collective may long for a balance in their lives; does this mean bringing back old news?
Are they your star-crossed lover or the perfect example of the right person, wrong time?
Or are you doomed to repeated old habits and remain in a toxic connection. These three signs must be aware of their (re)connection with their ex under this New Moon in Libra.
Zodiac signs coming back with an ex during the new moon in Libra from October 6, 2021:
Aries (March 21 – April 19)
Aries, there is a chance that you will reunite with your ex during the New Moon in Libra. You may experience a strong desire to mend things under this moon phase and feel that it is your sworn responsibility to reconcile old feelings.
How can you ever be satisfied if you don’t know if you’ve given everything you’ve got?
This is much more a reflection on the way you look at yourself than the dignity of the ex. You may feel ashamed or guilty about your decision to end the connection, as if you haven’t exhausted all your options.
However, it’s important to note that you don’t have to completely empty yourself to prove to yourself that you are valid to leave. This is not a kind way to treat yourself. You can’t expect to feel satiated if you’re constantly pouring into others.
Before you hit the “You up?” text, consider whether this is someone who will complete your life or whether you are looking for a decision to walk away from. These are two completely different things.
Cancer (June 21 – July 22)
Cancer, you may fall prey to reconnecting with your ex during this New Moon in Libra. Your emotions overflow under this Moon, swearing up and down that this time will be different.
You say you are a dreamer, but you are not.
Yes, your head is in the clouds and the fantasy in your mind, this plays out exactly like your favorite rom-com. However, life isn’t a movie and your ex isn’t part of the star-studded cast that idealizes you.
Not to pop your dream bubble, but you let them be so much more than they are. Challenge yourself during this moon to really evaluate the reality of the relationship, not just the highlight reel you’re clinging to.
If you revisit this and discover that they really are your McDreamy, be sure to come to their house and say, “It’s you, it’s always been you!” However, it’s more than likely that you’ll find that you don’t have to kiss a frog twice to get a happy ending.
Capricorn (December 22 – January 19)
Capricorn, you are also likely to reunite with an ex during the New Moon in Libra. This may come as a shock to some as they view you more as a rational person, but it takes someone special to really understand how sentimental you are.
You may find that your emotional wealth comes from service to others. If you’re not serving someone, you can’t justify how you feel. You may feel that your emotions, especially with regard to romance, are completely connected to your ex.
Do you want to be with them again or do you feel like you owe them something?
Your worth is not based on what you do for others. It’s time to examine if you feel like you owe them something for prioritizing yourself or if you really miss them. It’s hard to open up to people and your ex can be a comfort. It doesn’t mean you won’t love anymore.
You want something real, and for a moment you felt it with your ex. This New Moon begs the question of whether you’re going for close comfort or if you feel like a piece of you has been missing since they left.
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Tea Jones is a tarotist, psychic and certified Level III Reiki Master Practitioner who writes on spirituality, witchcraft, tarot and divination.